![]() ![]() This can often get to a point where it feels like gaslighting, where you’re being made to feel like you must be crazy because the narcissist insists you do, or always did enjoy, something you never liked. The truth is everyone has a touching and sometimes valid reason for doing something wrong or hurtful. The first time you critique their technique, however, be prepared to be told you’re wrong. When addressing power-play issues, its normal to get heart-melting excuses from your partner, making you feel tempted to excuse their behavior. When narcissists happen to hit on what you like anyway, then everything is great. Narcissists might even tell partners they aren’t aware of how aroused they actually are, or that they like to complain, but their bodies are saying something different. Narcissists, particularly if they’ve previously received positive feedback about their sexual performance, will often claim you must be wrong about your own sexual desires and responses. They will moderate their techniques if it don’t seem to feel good to their partners. Other partners will likely show an increasing and evolving awareness of what partners like in bed. Sometimes narcissists don’t learn from their mistakes.
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